And that’s the thing, really. The proliferation of unending lists and travel guides and must-sees for practically every place on the planet means that no matter where we go, we can easily have the perfect itinerary in mind for our journey. We all know what I mean—the restaurants to eat at, the museums to explore, the shops to mosey through, and let’s be honest, the essential spots to Instagram. But I think this frenzy for checking off our travel to-dos only creates a sort of anxiety within us, akin to being obsessed with some kind of elusive perfection we’ll never achieve, whether at home or abroad. The need to see and do all these not-to-be-missed sensational highlights keeps us from really experiencing the present moment to be relished right in front of us, because we are so concerned with getting to the next thing. That’s why adopting wabi-sabi as a mantra, a lens for seeing beauty, and a holistic way of life, is such a relief—it gives us permission to slow down, and to love the miraculously mundane moments in fresh or familiar places. Wabi-sabi reminds us that perfectly imperfect, unexpected and unplanned delights are to be discovered everywhere we go, if only we have the eyes and state of mind to see them.